Act hard

A woman is so tender and should be calm and mushy and all that sugar and spice and everything nice stuff.. but why have I see some act hard or like a dude? From the verbiage to the emotions, I notice that now a days more women act like a boy. I'm guilty of it too. Sometimes I curse like a sailor, I talk improperly and hide my emotions because I don't want people to know what I truly feel. Instead I make it seem like things don't bother me and they really do!